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S&M or SM
sadism and masochism.
SMer
Sadomasochist, person who does SM.
sacred prostitution
Marquis de Sade
Sadism
Deriving pleasure or sexual satisfaction from the infliction of pain on others. (Also see Roles and Functions
Sadist
  1. In BDSM a person who enjoys giving intense sensation in a consensual SM context.
  2. In a non-BDSM connotation, a person who derives pleasure by inducing non-consentual pain or emotions.
Sadomasochism
Taking pleasure, or sexual gratification from simultaneous sadism and masochism.
sadomasochistic sacrifice
safe sex
Safe, Sane & Consensual
A popular slogan in the BDSM world meaning that play should always be safe, with good judgment exercised. And, most importantly, it MUST be consensual. (See also RACK
Safe sex
Using condoms and taking all necessary health precautions during sex.
safer sex
safeword
Safewords
A word or gesture previously agreed upon during session negotiations for use by both Tops and bottoms to control or halt the action in a scene or a relationship.
Saint Andrews Cross
A popular piece of BDSM furniture (in the shape of an X) where a submissive can be conveniently tied or cuffed to it and rendered immobile.
saliromania
Salirophilia
Sexual arousal from tasting salty body fluids such as human perspiration, blood and/or urine. (Also see Foot Fetish)


salpingectomy
salpingitis
same-sex marriage
same-sex partnership
San Francisco Sex Information Switchboard (SFSI)
Founded in 1972 - One of the longest running (and best) sources for sex information: 415-989-SFSI (Rlzh.gifwww.sfsi.org/ )


sanitary napkin
sanitary pad
sanitary towel
sanky-panky
sapphic love|sapphic
sapphism
Sapphosadist
a lesbian sadist.
saptha padhi
Sarcoptes scabiei
satan worship
satyr
satyriasis
saucy seaside postcard
sausage party
scabies
scarfing
Scarification
many people desire intentional scars because they can be enticingly beautiful decorations, memories of particular relationships or scenes, or private symbols of ownership and d/s. Because of the skin's natural resilience, intentional scarification (that is, intentionally leaving a scar) via cuttings can in fact be hard for some people to accomplish even if it is desired! Raelyn Gallina is one of the finest scene-friendly piercing/cutting/scarification experts in the world. Asking in your local tattoo/piercing parlors and asking experienced players you meet through groups in your local Scene Community may also get you much useful information.
Scat play
Feces play - see Coprophilia


scatology
scatophilia


Scene(s) 
BDSM activities between consenting partner for a specified period of time
Scene names 
A name used by a person in session to help reinforce their role in that scene. In reference to turning professional.
Scopophilia or scoptophilia,
{from Greek "love of looking") is deriving pleasure from looking. As an expression of sexuality, it refers to sexual pleasure derived from looking at erotic objects: erotic photographs, pornography, naked bodies, etc.
scoptolagnia
scoptophilia
scratching (sexology)
Screw magazine
scrotal inflation
scrotal infusion
scrotal piercing
scrotal stretching
Scrotum - (also see page on 'Sex organs')
The bag of skin and muscle that contains the testicles in mammals.
Sensation play 
BDSM play where the intent is to push people's sensory limits, thus exploring texture, sensory deprival, through to whips, flaggillation and edgeplay.
Scourge
A scourge is typically a whip of several leather thongs, as once practiced by religious flagellants. Used loosely, the term 'scourging' is likely to imply a whipping severe enough to draw blood.
scuba fetishism
second skin
secondary sex characteristic
secondary virginity
Masturbation|secret vice
secular law
seduction
see-through clothing
self-abuse
Self bondage
Bondage carried out on oneself during solo play. Special safety precautions must be taken with this style of bondage.
self-isolation
semen
semen allergy
semen swapping
semen-loss anxiety
semen-loss syndrome
semeniferous tubules
seminal colliculus
seminal plasma
seminal plasma hypersensitivity
Seminal vesicle - (also see page on 'Sex organs')
They secrete a significant proportion of the fluid that ultimately becomes semen. About 70% of the seminal fluid in humans originates from the seminal vesicles.


seminiferous tubules
sensate focus
sensate focus exercises
sensate focusing
Sensation play
BDSM play where the intent is to push people's sensory limits, thus exploring texture, sensory deprival, through to whips, flaggillation and edgeplay.
sensory compensation
Sensory deprivation
using blindfolds, gags, earplugs, hoods, bondage, etc. to reduce information available to one or more senses.


sensory enhancement
sensory overload
sensuality
separatist feminism
septa of testis
septum of the penis
seraglio
serendipitous
serial killing
serial monogamy
seronegative
seropositive
serosorting
serotonin
serous tumor
Sertoli cell
Sertoli-Leydig cell tumor
Service
doing for another; the bottom for the Top, as an expression of obedience, respect, submission, devotion, love, etc.
service-oriented
Service top
A person who does whatever the submissive or bottom desires. See BDSM Roles and Functions
Sessions
BDSM activities between consenting partners. Sometimes the word Session is used to indicate time with a ProDom/me.


session wrestler
seven-year itch
sex
sex act
sex addict
sex addiction
sex adjunctive
sex adventitious
sex aid
sex allergy
sex assignment
sex boutique
sex change
sex chromatin
sex client
sex club
sex coaching
sex compulsion
sex cord-stromal tumor
sex crime
sex derivative
sex diet
sex doll
sex drive
sex education
sex flush
sex game
sex hormone
sex hormone binding globulin
sex hotel
sex hotline
[[sex industry}}
sex in space
sex irreducible
sex machine
sex magic
sex magick
sex manual
sex museum
sex nexus
sex object
sex of rearing
sex offender
sex parties
sex position
sex reassignment (disambiguation)|sex reassignment
sex reassignment surgery
sex reassignment surgery female-to-male
sex reassignment surgery male-to-female
sex restaurant
sex ring
sex role
sex scandal
sex shop
sex show
Sex sling
(See Bondage sling)
sex steroid
sex strike
sex surrogate
sex symbol
sex tape
sex therapist
sex therapy
sex tourism
sex toy
sex traffic
sex trafficking
sex urge
sex with your ex
sex worker
sex-contact magazine
sex-determining system
sex-hormone therapy
sex-positive
sex-positive feminism
Sexaholics Anonymous
sexercise
sexism
sexless marriage
Sexmuseum
sexological education
sexologist
sexology
sexosophy
sexploitation
sexsomnia
sexting
sexual aberration
sexual abstinence
sexual abuse
sexual acronyms
sexual act
sexual activities
sexual addiction
sexual anatomy
sexual anomalies
sexual arousal
sexual assault
sexual attraction
sexual availability
'
Sexual Behavior in the Human Female
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Sexual Behavior in the Human Male
Bondage (BDSM)|sexual bondage
sexual characteristics (disambiguation)|sexual characteristics
Sexual abuse#Child sexual abuse|sexual child abuse
sexual compulsion
Sexual Compulsives Anonymous
sexual confidence
sexual congress
sexual continence
sexual desire
sexual development
sexual deviancy
sexual deviant
sexual deviation
sexual differentiation
sexual dimorphism
sexual dissatisfaction
sexual drive
sexual dysfunction
sexual equality
sexual ethics
sexual ethnology
sexual exploitation and abuse in humanitarian response|sexual exploitation
sexual fantasy
sexual fetish
sexual fetishism
sexual fetishist
sexual fidelity
sexual flush
Sexual Freedom Coalition
sexual frequency
sexual frustration
sexual game
sexual harassment
sexual health
sexual health clinic
sexual history
sexual inadequacy
sexual identity
sexual intercourse
sexual intimacy
sexual inversion
sexual jealousy
sexual liberation
sexual lubricant
sexual malfunction
sexual maturation
sexual maturity
sexual medicine
sexual misconduct
sexual morality
sexual mores
sexual network
sexual norm
sexual orientation
Sexual orientation and Wicca
Sexual orientation change efforts
Sexual Identity Therapy
sexual outlet
sexual partner
sexual perversion
sexual perversity
sexual politics
sexual predator
sexual problem
sexual prop
sexual prowess
sexual reassignment surgery
sexual rehearsal play
sexual revolution
sexual ritual
sexual roleplaying
sexual sadism
sexual script
sexual slang
sexual slavery
sexual stimulation
sexual surrogate
sexual tension
sexual trophy
sexual violence
human sexuality|sexuality
sexuality education
sexuality in older age
Sexuality Information and Education Council of the United States
obsessive-compulsive disorder and sexuality
sexually active
sexually dimorphic nucleus
sexually transmissible disease
sexually transmitted disease
sexually violent predator
sexuoerotic
sexuoerotic body image fixation
sexuoeroticism
SFSI
(see San Francisco Sex Information Switcbboard above)
Shackle
Metal or leather bondage restraint device consisting of round cuffs joined by a chain or bar.
Shaving
It is very common in BDSM for submissives to shave their pubic hair.


shemale
shidduch
shim-pua marriage
shocker (hand gesture)
shoe dangling
Shoe Fetishism
Sexual arousal by seeing and/or wearing enjoys shoes. Popular fetish, even in the vanilla world.
shotacon
shotgun wedding
showers (sexology)
shunga
shyness
side entry missionary position
siderodromophilia
SIECUS
sigheh
significant other
Volkmar Sigusch
sildenafil citrate
Silver Ring Thing
Sin City (description)
sindoor
Single (relationship)|single
single mother
single parent
single status affidavit
singles bar
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sissy
sissy boy
sitophilia
situational child molester
situational sexual behaviour
sixty-nine
size queen
Skene's ducts
Skene's gland
Skene's glands
Skoptzy
slap and tickle -
slag (slang)|slapper
Erotic spanking|slapping (BDSM)
Slave
Person who gives up a great degree of control in an ongoing D/s relationship, sometimes with few remaining limits. Often those who identify as "slave" have a great desire for being of service to their dominant, sometimes referred to as "service-oriented submission."


Skene's gland - (also see page on 'Sex organs')
The Skene's glands (also known as the lesser vestibular, periurethral glands, or paraurethral glands) are glands located on the upper wall of the vagina, around the lower end of the urethra. They drain into the urethra and near the urethral opening. The location of the Skene's glands is also known as the Gräfenberg spot or G-spot; the general area is the urethral sponge.
Skirt
A skirt is a garment that covers the body from the waist to anywhere from the mid-thigh to the ankles depending on length. Unlike trousers or shorts, it is open at the bottom.
Slapper
Rigged paddle modified to make a loud sound.
Signal whip
Medium-length plaited leather whip similar to a small bullwhip, as used with dog teams.
Slave
person who is consensually owned as property of another. (See also the Roles and Functions)
Slave Names
A name given to a slave, sub, bottom to differentiate their roles from every day, vanilla life roles. (See also Slave Names)
Slave Position
Also called Positions. (ie. "Sub is kneeling, legs spread, head down and hands on thighs, with palms up")
Sleep sack
A bag in which to wrap the body for a particularly intense form of bondage, custom-made from leather or rubber or improvised from a sleeping bag and rope or straps.


sleeping princess syndrome
sleeping together
sleepsex
sex swing|sling
sloppy seconds
slut
SM-101
Book written by Jay Wiseman (read more about Jay in Icons W)
SM-201
The "next book in the series", written by Robin Roberts


smegma
smoking fetishism
smotherbox
snapping pussy
snowballing (sexual practice)|snowballing
soapland
social distancing
social host liability}} -
social vice
Society for Human Sexuality
Society for the Scientific Study of Sexuality
sociobiological theories of rape
sodomy
sodomy law
soft butch
soft chancre
Soft Limits
Something that someone is hesitant to do or nervous to try. They can sometimes be talked into the activity, or preferably it may be negotiated at a trial or beginner level into a scene.


softcore pornography
soggy biscuit
soiree}} -
soixante-neuf
solicitation
soliciting
solitary vice
sologamy
solosexuality
somatic
somatotropin
somesthetic
somnophilia
sororal polygyny
sororate marriage
urethral sounding|sounding
spandex fetishism
Spanking
Usually the punishing device is the open palm. The five popular postures for spanking are: across the knees, between the thighs, across a single elevated thigh, tucked under the arm, between the legs, or held down by the collar across an appropriate item of furniture.


Spartan pederasty
Neutering|spay
spectrophilia
Speculum
Device intended for medical examination of the rectum or vagina, normally made of steel in a duckbill design. The 'bill' is lubricated and inserted and then the two jaws are moved apart with a screw mechanism, stretching the opening to give a clear view down the throat of the instrument.
speed dating
Spencer Paddle
Form of wooden paddle with holes drilled in striking surface.


sperm
sperm bank
sperm competition
sperm count
sperm donation
sperm donor
sperm motility
sperm sample
spermatic cord
spermatic duct
spermatid
spermatidogenesis
spermatocele
spermatocyte
spermatocytogenesis
spermatogenesis
spermatogonium
spermatophobia
spermatophore
spermatorrhea
spermatozoa
spermatozoon
spermicide
spermiogenesis
sphincter
spinnbarkeit
spinster
spin the bottle}} -
spiritual marriage
spiritual wifery
spit roast (sex)
spitting fetishism
splanchnic nerves
splash conception
split beaver
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sploshing
spoiled orgasm
spongy urethra
spoons position
spousal abuse
Spreader Bars
are used to separate extremities from each other. They are normally around 2-3 feet long, though the size varies. The ends of the bar can be attached to cuffs around the wrists, ankles, or neck. The bar enables the Dom to control the movement of the sub, and enables the Dom to access certain body areas easily.


spreadeagle (position)|spreadeagle
squashing of the deckchair position
squeeze technique
stag party
stalking
standing sex position
stapling (sexology)
statutory rape
sexually transmitted disease|STD
STD clinic
STD testing
steatopygia
stem pessary
stereocilia (epididymis)
infertility|sterility
sterilization (surgical procedure)
steroid hormones
sexually transmitted infection|STI
stigmatic/eligibilic paraphilia
stigmatophilia
stimulus-response theory
Stockholm syndrome
stocking fetishism
Stonewall riots
stop and go exercises
stop-start technique
Marie Stopes
Story of O
strangling (sexology)
strangulation
strap-on dildo
Street Offences Act 1959
street prostitution
streetwalker
stretching (sexology)
Stretcher
Term covering a variety of toys used for stretching muscles or parts of the body. A ball stretcher in fact stretches the scrotum above the balls -- see under ball toy. In bondage, stretchers are cuffs attached to long solid bars designed to hold limbs apart.
Squick or Squicked
There will be things you will encounter in BDSM that will not be interesting for you. In fact, there will be things that may stun you or gross you out! This effect is so common that there is a word for it. People say they are squicked when they encounter something that someone else does that makes them feel squeamish or "icky." (The word "squick" conflates those two words. The word is attributed to STella, a well-known and articulate woman in the BDSM community in San Francisco.)
Stigmatophilia
Sexual attraction to those with body modifications or tattoos
Stocks
are basically constructed from two pieces of wood with semi-circular indentations that fix together to trap arms, legs or neck: there are a variety of designs, from ankle stocks that fix the bottom in a sitting position to wrist-and-neck stocks that bend him or her over. They can be quite uncomfortable and lining the holes is suggested. They can be made at home or bought from specialist suppliers.
Straight
Same as heterosexual
Straight Jackets
A garment shaped like a jacket used for restraining people
Strap ons
A belt or harness that has a dildo attached. It allows the wearer the ability to fuck another either in the vagina or anus.
Straps
Normally, these are special items made of nylon webbing or leather. These are items that go a step beyond mere binding of hands or feet. They are much more difficult to get out of, and are more restrictive. Some strap items bind the wrists to the thighs, or to the ankles.
Statuephilia
A love of mannequins ar statues - pygmalionism
Stranger
A person unknown to you (See Xenophilia and/or Xenophobia
Stretcher
Term covering a variety of toys used for stretching muscles or parts of the body. A ball stretcher in fact stretches the scrotum above the balls -- see under ball toy. In bondage, stretchers are cuffs attached to long solid bars designed to hold limbs apart.


string bondage
strip poker
strip pub
strip search
Striptease|stripping
stripping fetishism
striptease
stroma of ovary
stuffing (fetish)
stuffing (sexology)
submission (BDSM)|subbing
subcutaneous tissue of penis
Subdrop
A physical condition, often with cold- or flu-like symptoms, experienced by a submissive after an intense session of BDSM play. This can last for as long as a week, and is best prevented by aftercare immediately after the session.
subfertility
subincision
sublimation (psychology)|sublimation
subliminal tape


Dominance and submission|submission
submission (BDSM)
submissive (BDSM)
Submission
volitional giving up of control and power.
Submissive or Sub
A person who gives up power and control in a scene. The submissive (or "sub") agrees to defer to the other partner the dominant. SUBMIT: To yield or surrender (oneself) to the will or authority of a Master or Mistress.


subpersonality


Subservience
is an attitude exhibited by some people that makes them willing to defer to another person and comply with their wishes.
At its extreme, subservience is exhibited as a cringing obsequiousness.
Subspace
A "natural high" that a sub gets during a scene or when being controlled. The sub may feel disconnected from time, space, and/or their body, and may have limited ability to communicate. It is critical that a Dom(me) be aware of their sub's wellbeing if they are in subspace..


succubus
sugar daddy (slang)|sugar daddy
supernumerary nipple
support group
Surface Burn
A temporary brand, usually produced with copper wire heated less hot than steel used in making a permanent brand. - see also Burns
Surface Piercing
Temporary piercing through the skin's surface.
surface epithelial-stromal tumor
Suspension bondage
a form of bondage in which a person is partly or fully raised off the ground.


surgical fetishism
surrendered wife
surrogate mother
Suspension bondage|suspension
suspensory ligament of the ovary
suspensory ligament of the penis
suttee
suturing (sexology)
swara (custom)|swara
swayamvara
Term of endearment|sweetheart
sweetheart scam
swimsuit fetishism
swing (sexology)
swing club
swinging|swinger
swinging
swinging both ways
swish (slang)|swish
Switch
Although some people are 100% top or bottom, the majority of folks switch, at least occasionally. This can be arranged in many different ways. Sometimes partners take turns with each other. Other times, someone will only top one partner and only bottom to some other partner. (See also Roles and Functions)


sworn virgin
Swyer syndrome
Sybarite
  • One whose life is devoted to sensual appetites; a sensualist, a pleasure-seeker.
  • person devoted to pleasure and luxury; a voluptuary.
switch (BDSM)
switch (sexuality)
Sybian
sympathetic nervous system
symphorophilia
symphysis pubis dysfunction
Symphorophilia
Sexual attraction from creating casualties and disasters - see also Phobophilia


symptothermal method
synechial membrane
syphilis}}
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