I was on the Internet a few days ago and watching videos produced by one of the larger film producing companies.
It dawned on me that all of their videos depict submissive females telling their Masters what they want they done to them. The videos from the 1960s 70s 80s show a dominant male tying up a pretty lady and forcing her to do something that will create an orgasm for him. These days however it appears that most videos depict a “submissive female” telling her partner how she prefers to be tied, and what to do for her to have an orgasm. Now I’m not sure, but somehow the “topping from the bottom” concept has caused the pendulum to swing way off center into the realm of “politically correct”.
I definitely am not into doing sessions with someone against their will. After all, I truly believe that I am one of the people who helped create the “red, yellow, and green” concept of safe words. It is my job as a Master to know what I am doing. It is incumbent on me to know what is safe and what is not. I am also the person that created “prime directive” of:
“It is the duty of the slave to take care of the Master and take care of his property.”
If I give a command to one of my partners, I expect them to carry out the command immediately, correctly and with positive enthusiasm.
I do not expect to have to deal with a mediator, or a social worker, or their mother asking what are my intentions, my qualifications, or my credentials.
Now before you go off running in circles and asking for my head on a platter, I will say in a very clear and robust voice, that I think that dominant females should have the same rights and privileges as dominant males. I do not want to tell her how she should play with her submissive. If she wishes to stick needles in him, or set fire to his testicles, so be it it is between her and her submissive. At the same time, I don’t think that someone should be telling me how much hair pulling, sex and or tickling should be present in my sessions.
Recently, I was accosted by someone who felt that my Christmas card with Jessica bound and gagged in front of my fireplace was an affront to every American. I am sorry if that person feels offended but as I remember the Constitution, we all have the freedom of speech. Somehow, I do not remember freedom of speech equates to the freedom to listen to what you want. If you do not like what the television station is broadcasting, you have the right to change the channel but you do not have the right to blow up and/or destroy the television transmitting station.
I try very diligently to keep politics and religion out of my blogs, my writings, and my public speaking. I will not tell you who to vote for or what church to attend. I will say that we need a lot less government control in our lives. This country was built on personal and religious freedoms. Please vote accordingly.
A decade ago, I wrote the following article.
PC vs Mac by Robin Roberts
I haven’t seen any response to this question from any of the HetMaleDoms on this list yet, so here is my take on the question.
For the first two centuries of this country’s existence, almost all of the exploration (and exploitation) was done by Alpha Male heterosexuals. Most of what the United States is today is due to our “founding fathers” and their decisions, both good and bad.
During the past couple of decades, as I remember them, almost every minority group has come forward to decry the fact that they were persecuted under the tyranny of our “founding fathers.”
This is not in defense of, nor a glorification of, HetMaleDoms, just a singular observation. I am pushing sixty, and was here when the BDSM scene started in the Bay Area (which was before some of you were born) and I can report actual history (a word history which comes from the time before written accounts and means that is was “his story” of what happened.).
As I see it, it has become completely politically incorrect (a.k.a.: “Non-PC”) to be a Male, Anglo Saxon Chauvinist (a.k.a.: “MAC”) within the confines of the larger group of humanity (a.k.a.: “The Network”).
So, unless we can find a way for MACs and PCs to interface on the same Network, the whole system will crash, and the ISM (a.k.a.: “Infinite System Manager”) will have to come forward and re boot the entire system (And we all become foot fetishists and pony girls and pony boys???).
I think that we all need to start stripping ourselves of the over inflated egos and titles, quit the finger pointing, accept total responsibility for our own actions and get on with the enjoyment of life.
We need to stop the hyphenation (a.k.a.: *-American) of our country. One of the first lessons they teach in Political Science (an oxymoron, better known as a combination of scientists and morons) is: “If you wish to destroy a large political organization, first divide the members into “us and them” subgroups. Then get those subgroups to fight amongst themselves (a.k.a.: divide and conquer).
We need to coalesce into a cohesive, unified people and remember why we are here. (We now hear sounds of “Patriotic Music” swelling in the background). Every political party: the Republican Party, the Democratic Party, and the Independent party, no matter which party you belong to, all of the people throughout this great land of ours, this wonderful country in which we live.
Kwitchyerbellyakin (and we need to have more parties!!)